বিয়ের অনুষ্ঠানে মেলামেশা করা কি জায়েজ?
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What is the view on mixing at weddings?
As a wedding is a festive gathering and as such mixing within a wedding would not be allowed and should be segregated otherwise socialising between men and women would occur and attending a wedding like this would be haram. Likewise the mixed halls of weddings are not allowed. Rather there should be halls for men and halls for women. The Shabab should not go if invited to such mixed wedding halls, whether alone or with his wife and mahrem relatives.
The Mixed party in weddings is haram. This includes the entrance of the bridegroom to the women’s room, sitting on the bridal throne besides his bride, taking photos for and the celebration of the women with him, when they are usually uncovered particularly if they are not mahrem to him. All of such mixing is haram.
As for the hadith of the messenger (saw), this does not indicate that the Prophet (saw) sat with Aisha (ra) among the women in the wedding when he married her. The hadith only indicates that Aisha (ra) was in the house of women from Al-Ansar where they prepared her on the marriage. Then the Prophet (saw) came to the house of Al-Ansar and took Aisha (ra) to his house. This hadith is reported by Muslim and Ibn Maj
Its wording according to Muslim is, narrated from Aisha; she said “…. Then (my mother Umm Ooman) came to me while I was at a swing with my friends, she shouted to me, so I went to her without knowing what does she want of me. She got my hand and stopped me at the door so I said Ha Ha… till I lost my breath. She took me inside the house; all of a sudden there were women from the Ansar. They said “with goodness and blessing, and good luck”. She handed me to them, so they washed my hair and put me in order. Then the messenger (saw) came, and she handed me to him”.
As a wedding is a festive gathering and as such mixing within a wedding would not be allowed and should be segregated otherwise socialising between men and women would occur and attending a wedding like this would be haram. Likewise the mixed halls of weddings are not allowed. Rather there should be halls for men and halls for women. The Shabab should not go if invited to such mixed wedding halls, whether alone or with his wife and mahrem relatives.
The Mixed party in weddings is haram. This includes the entrance of the bridegroom to the women’s room, sitting on the bridal throne besides his bride, taking photos for and the celebration of the women with him, when they are usually uncovered particularly if they are not mahrem to him. All of such mixing is haram.
As for the hadith of the messenger (saw), this does not indicate that the Prophet (saw) sat with Aisha (ra) among the women in the wedding when he married her. The hadith only indicates that Aisha (ra) was in the house of women from Al-Ansar where they prepared her on the marriage. Then the Prophet (saw) came to the house of Al-Ansar and took Aisha (ra) to his house. This hadith is reported by Muslim and Ibn Maj
Its wording according to Muslim is, narrated from Aisha; she said “…. Then (my mother Umm Ooman) came to me while I was at a swing with my friends, she shouted to me, so I went to her without knowing what does she want of me. She got my hand and stopped me at the door so I said Ha Ha… till I lost my breath. She took me inside the house; all of a sudden there were women from the Ansar. They said “with goodness and blessing, and good luck”. She handed me to them, so they washed my hair and put me in order. Then the messenger (saw) came, and she handed me to him”.
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